Well, you are not going to be reading from my creative head this time, hahahhahaha!!!
I believe it’s also Creative when we get to read from someone else’ perspective. So, let’s read what this amazing web developer has for us:
UNCLE J’s VIEW:
Sometimes, what I find particularly hilarious is the fact that some women, would be shouting don’t marry a lazy man, don’t marry a lazy man but they don’t have what it takes to secure and keep a hard working man.
This is a hard truth that some women need to swallow, the reason you have not met the man of your dreams is because you’re not worthy of him.
I think we as a people have gotten so accustomed to hating men that it permeates all that we think, say, and do.
Don’t get me wrong, every single man out there should be hardworking and earning his daily bread. I just get frustrated when in see that in most relationships, the man is the sole provider. That is a man can marry a woman that’s not working and no one bats an eye but you can’t even toast a girl as a guy if you’re not relatively financially capable.
To the women out there that are bosses in their own right – you ladies are the real MVPs. For the others, let me tell you a secret, if you’re not adding value to you man’s life, just forget it. Fine face and better assets are not enough! In case you didn’t know this is one of the reasons why a man may be prolonging his marriage proposal. If you’re an asset, the cost of matrimonial rites is an investment for the guy, but if you’re the opposite, it’s a LIABILITY.
In the interest of being fair, whatever you know you can not provide for yourself as a woman. Don’t impose on someone’s son. Relationship that’s supposed to be a safe haven for mutual love, growth, and development, some women have now turn it to business center.
Men are already going through a lot – shorter life spans, higher suicide rates, and higher incarceration rates. Then on top of all that a woman would want to add her issues again.
If you’re a guy, and you have a job or business and you’re doing your best. Then appreciate yourself – you’re a spec! Emancipate yourself from the outdated notion that you have to take care of anybody’s daughter. If you’re feeling it, fine and good. But don’t let anyone guilt you into it. Mind you, they will say you’re very stingy, ehn, agreed. You that is not stingy, bring your own make we chop.
Make una no go dey read too much meaning into this post, this is just an outcry of a heavy heart prompted by what I’ve seen online been posted by some women in the past few days. I felt there’s need for some push back, and so that’s what I’m doing.
In summary, do unto others as you’ll have them do unto you.
Justice Abutu Royale (Web Developer)
There you have it Unbreakies…
This is straight up from the perspective of a man who believes men should be seen with a totally different eye. I hope you all get to see reasons with his view.